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Kestrell ([personal profile] kestrell) wrote2021-07-09 11:51 am

I just deleted my Facebook account

I just deleted my Facebook account. Facebook has never been as accessible as I thought it should be, and it's always been a pain in the ass to use. In addition, this recent deal to sell advertising to Oculis so it appears on people XR headsets is really creepy: seriously, sighted people, advertisers are not going to be happy until they can feed advertising to you in your sleep.

I signed up for many of these social media accounts when I was in the media studies program at MIT, when social media seemed all shiny and new and full of promise, but the accessibility hasn't improved all that much since then, while the privacy and security risks have increased exponentially, especially over the past year. It's past time to sign off.

My next step is to delete my Twitter account.

So don't panic: I'm not dead, I'm just not on Facebook or Twitter anymore.
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As you know, Bob, I totally approve of this!

[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2021-07-12 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)

FB is a (probably intentional) UX nightmare: they channel everything into their walled garden.

I've been visiting Twitter for 29 minutes/day and I'll admit that my mood has only been worsened. It's full of hot takes on how Everything Is Going to Hell Right Now and that may indeed be the case but worrying about it doesn't accomplish anything.

Mastodon is Twitter-esque with robust privacy and moderation controls -- have you ever tried it? I have a couple accounts but have never spent much time on it.

Is there any social medium that's comfortably accessible for you? Reddit? Email lists?

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Re: As you know, Bob, I totally approve of this!

[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2021-07-12 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)

I'm afraid to find out re: "cohorts" but will track it down.

I had two gmail accounts for a decade -- and I gave myself an entire year to wean away from them. They're still alive as "Inactive Accounts," as explained fourteen levels deep in support.

https://support.google.com/accounts/answer/3036546

This was facilitated by having a password manager -- I searched for gmail and recreated 5 new accounts every week.

I've set my gmail to auto reply: Subj: Account closed; body: This account no longer connects with a human.

Keeping them inactive means I can glance at them every three months to notice anyone who I want to communicate with.

YES IT TOOK A YEAR to back away from the Google octopus. And I still have one tentacle in: I'm signed in on YouTube (on my Roku TV streamer and in one browser) so I can have subscriptions and a history.

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Re: As you know, Bob, I totally approve of this!

[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2021-07-12 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)

It feels like my life is totally online, but actually I've been backing away some.

In the winter, though ....